Chronic blaming is a form of emotional abuse. Being in a relationship with someone who constantly blames us for their behaviour, their actions, their moods and their failure means being in a relationship that is full of verbal abuse and emotional manipulation. Moreover, this relationship is defined by conflict, constant fighting and lack of forgiveness.
As I mentioned in my last week’s blog, happiness is a choice; choice that only we can make. We therefore shouldn’t expect others to make us happy as it’s not their job to do so. Moreover, do we really want to give another human being total control over our emotional state?